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A New Phenomenon: Relating to Evil

The Difference Between Yitchak’s Approach and Rivka’s Approach


 

 Translated from Hebrew by S. NAthan

l'ilui nishmat Esther bat mordechai

 

 

Up to this point, the new chooser had beem required to confront lower reality as though there were no higher reality of heavenly, private hashgaha.  At the same time, he had had to rely – with a dependency that was absolute – upon the reality of hashgaha pratit. as if the nature’s rule-governed laws had no influence or validity in the lower reality.  This was a confrontation between matter and spirit, between secular and sacred.

Nevertheless, he must also deal with the choice between good and evil.  Yet good and evil are to be found within himself.  However, from now on, he will be required also to confront the presence of evil that is outside of himself, through the use of brute force.

Rivka brings this news:  Brute force confrontation has been born, out of her womb specifically.  The use of force is after all alien to the Torah conception, in that it is a surrender to the forces of physical matter, as though these forces were something more than the mere expression of the Hand that guides creation from on high.

It would appear that this decree is intended to deepen the obligation of the new free choice, which is accompanied by responsibility, and which compels one to relate to the minutest details of the processes of the unfolding of existential reality.

Just as the phenomenon of brute force exists in material reality, so must God’s servant relate to this brute force through its own tools, and not ignore it or circumvent it through prayer and asking for a miracle.  This additional test exists, of course, in such a way as to make it possible to stumble, to be caught in the seductive trap of kohi ve’otsem yadi, “my own strength and the might of my own hand…”

In addition to all this, this test of brute force will not be limited to the material dimension alone, but will enter also into personal/human, and into the spiritual/mystical.  The chooser will have to relate to and deal with all three of these dimensions of brute force.

Esav, symbol of brute force nakedly exposed, deals only with the lowest dimension of physical matter.  “Pray, pour down my throat…”  He is quite willing to renounce the human/personal dimension as well as his own moral values.  “And Esav despised the bechora, the right of the first-born.”

On the surface it appears that Esav was right.  After all, he knew how to honor his father, and even excelled in the mitsva of honoring his father, as is well-known.  Hazal actually praise him for this.  Yet the respect he demonstrates is only of a practical nature, and contains no appreciation of spiritual values whatsoever.  It is possible to honor an aged father, not out of an attitude of reverence for the value of fatherhood and old age, but rather out of a personal/human relationship.

Esav cries out bitterly over the lost blessings, not because he values his father’s capacity to confer heavenly bounty from on high, for after all he does not believe in the dimension of height.  Rather, Esav is enraged by the mere fact of his father’s preferring Yaakov to himself.  This is why he does not value the very valuable bracha that Yitzchak eventually grants him against all odds.  He does not trouble himself to examine the fine distinctions between the two brachot, and decides to kill his brother.

Had he even slightly examined his father’s bracha to Ya’akov, he would have understood that he stood no chance of overcoming his brother, even in Yaakov’s time of weakness.  The best he could hope for was that he might free himself from his enslavement to him: “And it shall be that when you grieve, you will unfasten his yoke from upon your neck.”

It was not the right of the first-born that he had sold that caused him regrets, for after all according to Rashi he knew that the bechora had no future, that it would soon be pushed aside in favor of the cehuna !

1.                 The very fact of this difficult decree – the need to use evil’s power in order to confront evil – is the hidush that runs through our parasha as a consistent theme, as a crimson thread: The use of deceit, Yaakov’s need to mask his intentions in order to win brachot that he alone rightly deserves.

2.               The very fact that Yitzchak attempts to bless brute-force, wicked Esav seems to reflect his intention of fastening evil to sanctity’s course.  Evil would thus serve sanctity, in Yitzchak’s blessings, and would serve Yaakov himself.  The yetser hara would serve and would be enslaved to the yetser hatov.  “When the voice is Yaakov’s voice” Esav will enslave himself to him.  “Be a lord over your brother, and the children of your mother will enslave themselves to you.”

 

Rivka attempts to turn things in a different direction.  She attempts to nullify evil by reinforcing the good.  She uses the means of evil (deceit, brute force) in order to abolish them.

It is only at a later stage, when Yaakov must create and innovate, that he will learn himself, on his own flesh, and will also have to teach and to bequeath this skill to his children –  the use of good to nullify evil’s power: “When ‘the voice is

Yaakov’s voice’, then ‘the hands are Esav’s hands’ have no control.”

The principle of using brute force is expressed in the affair of the wells as well.  New choosing man cannot rely on his father’s strength.  He must struggle himself and dig his own well anew.

Rivka, who comes from wicked stock, knows that there is no escape from the need to use evil’s tools in order to confront it, whereas Yitzchak attempts to turn evil about, to attach it to a goal belonging to the dimension of height, hoping thus to achieve a balance of terror: Both sides will possess a power which neither will use against the other, but rather each will only use for the goal of its own survival.

Such a hope exists only ad hoc, when there is no long-range, unifying goal, whereas the approach taken by Rivka, who is more experienced than Yitzchak in such things, is able to bring about reconciliation and balance between the force of good and the force of evil, with the one strengthening itself from within itself, gaining control over itself rather than over the other.  When good strengthens itself, intensifying the power of good within itself, then evil does not fight it but serves it instead.  “ ‘And you shall love…with all your hearts’ – with both your urges.”

 

 

The Sale of the Birthright.

Is birthright an intrinsic value or a biological one?  Yaakov turns a biological fact into a value by keeping faith with the new method of free choice.  Yitzchak intends by his blessings to assist Esav in adjusting to the new method, so that he may be included as well.  However, Esav recoils from the weight of responsibility entailed in the new free choice.  “Here I am about to die, etc.” 

Yitzchak’s subsequent blessing to Esav is coordinated to Esav’s approach: “By your sword you shall live.”  Brute-force physical facts, devoid of personal-spiritual values. 

“And your brother you shall serve.”  He has to understand that his power is not effective against anyone who has had the wisdom to free himself from brute-force physical facts, who has built his own value-based personality out of personal responsibility. 

Whoever takes on the challenge of free choice through responsibility is entitled to the birthright.

Behira – bechora.

 

 

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